Saturday, March 28, 2026

What We Cooked and Ate (Week 13)

This Week's Eats:

Go big or go home! This week found us at the end of our bag of salmon burgers from Costco. In honor of that, I made twice-baked potatoes as the side dish. They're not too much effort the way I made them. I just baked the potatoes, hollowed out the insides, and mixed the cooked flesh with sour cream, parsley, salt, and pepper, then threw that back into the shells, and topped with cheese!

Monday, March 23, 2026

Afghan 91

Crocheting is kind of my "party trick" (enter meeting or other gathering where I need to keep my hands busy). In this case, it kind of backfired. I chose this afghan pattern while we had company over (I think for my husband's birthday in September 2025, but I'm not totally sure), so I really wasn't paying that much attention. The pattern is labeled as "intermediate" level, but it was really kind of complicated. I ran out of yarn a few times and let the afghan be. But finally, finally, it's done.

I don't think I want to do a pattern like this for a long time, or ever. The point of crocheting for me is to have a soothing activity I can do almost without thinking. This took a lot of thinking and counting and tallying. The texture is cool, but not worth it for me!

Hook: Size I placed into a Boye ergonomic crochet hook handle

Pattern: Hygge chic throw (Yarnspirations)

I chained 141 for 14 shells, and did around 25 rows. (The full blanket size was 128 rows. I cannot imagine doing that many!)

Finished size: 25 x 37 (approximating 30 x 35 stroller size)


Saturday, March 21, 2026

What We Cooked and Ate (Week 12)

This Week's Eats:

Same menu again, with a few tweaks to add variety. I have found sheet pan pancakes an extremely efficient way to make pancakes. Yes, round pancakes are pretty, but with a sheet pan, they all cook at once, hands off! Plus, I can add whatever mix-ins I want. This week, I added strawberries to all the pancakes, peanut butter chips to some (for a PBJ vibe), and chocolate chips to others (for a chocolate-covered strawberry vibe).

Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Afghan 90


This was a nice, pretty blanket that worked up easily with various skeins of yarn I had lying around. With just half-double crochet and slip stitches, it worked up pretty mindlessly-perfect for picking up and putting down without losing the pattern. It went to a very special little girl whom I haven't met in person, but already love very much!

Hook: Ergonomic crochet hook size J

Yarn: I Love This Yarn! turquoiseMainstays whiteRed Heart soft navy

Pattern: Pumpkin spice blanket (Beautiful Dawn Designs)

Finished size: 32 x 47


Monday, March 16, 2026

Project 333 (I Pretty Much Failed Before I Started)


I learned about Project 333 by reading Courtney Carver's (2017) book Soulful Simplicity. She designed Project 333 to help reduce nonessential items on her closet and pursue a life of simplicity. She would wear 33 items of clothing (including shoes and jewelry, but not her wedding ring, undergarments, socks, or workout clothes) and wear only those items for three months (Carver, n.d.). Her efforts went viral and thus the "official" challenge was born.

I read about Project 333 again in Joshua Becker's (2018) book The More of Less and figured, "Why not?" Originally, I thought that the challenge would coincide with Lent, and I would be good. Then I realized it was for three months, which would stretch into and over hopes for a weekend trip, and a family wedding. Still, I thought I might be able to do it.

I made some intentional choices to rewear clothes that first week. I tried to use the same accessories and to keep workout clothes for working out only (a rule of the challenge according to Carver, n.d.b.). I realized I would need to be resourceful to keep in my wedding clothes, as I thought I needed to dress up to be respectful. I was doing okay until I realized I had already worn three different pairs of sunglasses, plus added a hat. I could argue that I "needed" these for sun protection, and I did, but I didn't need all three pairs. One would have done.

As I read more about the challenge, I realized that I missed some key steps. I was supposed to box up all the clothes I wasn't going to wear (Carver, n.d.b.). So I basically set myself up for failure there. Carver also suggests doing a closet clean out and choosing only loved items for the capsule wardrobe. I didn't do that, either. I didn't categorize (Carver, n.d.a.). I didn't make a preemptory list of my capsule wardrobe (Carver, 2024). By failing to plan, I basically planned to fail.

I did put Carver's (2020) Project 333 book on hold at the library, and am currently reading it. That way I will know how to be successful at the challenge if I really decide to do it. I am not sure I will, though. Yes, I see its benefits: It can reduce decision fatigue (Carver, n.d.a.). It can reduce clothes in my closet. But is it practical? Would it benefit me, or just add more stress? I read that it is "not a project in suffering" (Carver, n.d.c.). I read that Carver did it in 15 to 95 degrees. I am not sure the challenge is for me, though. Sure, get rid of what I'm not wearing, but why not enjoy wearing what I have? Should I lose, or grow out of, or have to throw out all of my clothes, maybe I would build a capsule wardrobe and go from there. As it is, it just seems pointless, borderline wasteful, and definitely slightly stressful and guilt-inducing to try to do the challenge. Oh wait! I guess I already tried to do the challenge and failed.

References:

Becker, J. (2018). The more of less: Finding the life you want under everything you own. Waterbrook.

Carver, C. (n.d.a.). How to build a capsule wardrobe. Be more with less. https://bemorewithless.com/how-to-build-a-capsule-wardrobe/

Carver, C. (n.d.b.). Project 333 challenge. Be more with less. https://bemorewithless.com/project-333-challenge/

Carver, C. (n.d.c.). Project 333: Getting started (Without these 5 things). Be more with less. https://bemorewithless.com/project-333-enough-is-enough/

Carver, C. (2017). Soulful simplicity: How living with less can lead to so much more. Tarcher.

Carver, C. (2020). Project 333: The minimalist fashion challenge that moves less is really so much more. Tarcher.

Carver, C. (2024). How to start a capsule wardrobe (10 easy, practical steps). Be more with less. https://bemorewithless.com/start-a-capsule-wardrobe/

Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Real Life Marriage: Holy Not Happy (A Reprise)

When I first got married, I really railed against the idea that marriage is "to make you holy not happy"  (a paraphrase from Gary Thomas' (2015) book Sacred Marriage). It was really that word "not" that I railed against. Marriage was making me happy, and I wanted to enjoy it. I still do. Marriage is a gift from God, one I do not want to take for granted. Six plus years into marriage, though, I think I am starting to get it.

I love my husband. Really, I do! He is a gift. He is smart, kind, caring, compassionate, helpful, wise, and so much more-AND-we are very different. Six years in, those differences seem to be becoming more, not less pronounced. Or maybe they are just becoming more apparent as we experience more of life together. If marriage was all about happiness, I would argue that we would be out. Marriage is a lot more about sanctification, or at least overtly choosing that path.

Being married to a very different person forces me to confront my selfishness over and over again. If I am honest, most of the time I just want to make choices that benefit myself. I want to eat what and where I want to eat. I want to do chores on my schedule. I want to watch movies I like. I want to spend money on things for me. Sometimes I want to make choices that benefit and bless my husband, but most often, I don't. Marriage makes that very apparent. Marriage show me how much I need to grow.

I have plenty of happy times with my husband. We enjoy adventuring together. We travel. We play games. In this season, though, my need to grow is apparent. I have always needed the Lord's sanctifying work, but now more than ever, I see it. Marriage is an instrument God is using in my life. Man, it can be rough. Man it can be painful. Since marriage is God's will for me, though, I would not have it any other way. I need to be more holy and when God in His grace allowed me to get married, this was part of His plan.

Reference:

Thomas, G. (2015). Sacred marriage: What if God designed marriage to make us holy rather than to make us happy? Zondervan.