Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Top Ten of 2025

Whew! This year has flown by. Praise the Lord for all that has happened in it, and how He has carried us through it!

This year, yoga once again won the attention on Instagram:

My top blog posts this year were mostly past ones, but these 2025 ones also made the cut:

1) Eats and Empties (Week 4)

2) I enjoy running, but...

3) Everything I Read in January

4) Girls on the Run 5K

5) Real Life Marriage: I Want You to Have Nice Things!

(This seems like such a strange group of posts. Why certain blog posts take off, I will never know!)

Over on Facebook, these were the top posts for the year:

1) Real Life Marriage: The Honeymoon Year (Six Years In)

2) Grieving the (Maybe Not So Little) Things Anew

3) Eats and Empties (Week 17)

4) Nationwide Children's Columbus Half-Marathon

5) Celebrating National Pumpkin Day (Year Five)

To all my faithful readers, thank you. Lord willing, see you for a round of writing in 2026!

Everything I Read in December


I had read 119 books as of November 30th. I did not think there was any way I would surpass my 2023 reading high of 135 books. But then I had two weeks off work. During that time, I listened to three audiobooks. I also challenged myself to read at least one hour a day. Voila! I got to 136 by 12/29, and that was even before adding in year end books like our devotional and the Bible. Sure, I was still distracted. Yes, I also spent a lot of time on social media, dilly-dallying about, etc., but I also got in some very good books! Praise the Lord! Here's my final list:

120) So Not Happening by Jenny B. Jones—Bella Kirkwood moves from Manhattan, New York to Truman, Oklahoma when her mother remarried. She’s snobby and rude and prissy and materialistic, as well as overly self-focused, but over time, all this starts to change. While this is definitely a book about Hugh schoolers written for young adults, it has some depth to it along with the slapstick silly humor. It also has some mystery to it added by Bella’s piece about the football team. Add hints of romance with a frenemy, and it made for a fun, clean read—for this adult as well as for the teens for whom Jenny B. Jones wrote it.

121) I’m So Sure by Jenny B. Jones—Book two in this series has Bella Kirkwood maturing, but still having way too many klutzy moments, and this time on camera, since her stepdad Jake is on a wrestling reality show. After Bella’s exposure of the football team brotherhood, people keep coming to her to solve mysteries. The big mystery item is the sabotage of the prom queen race at Truman High School. (It’s not who I expected!) Newspaper Editor Luke Sullivan wants them to solve the mystery together (in part so he can protect Bella), but they have a love/hate relationship that makes that difficult. Then there is the issue of Hunter Penbrook, Bella’s ex-boyfriend who seems to be having a change of heart and coming to Christ. This book is silly, and serious, and a little bit Miss Congeniality-es que. While it doesn’t spellbind readers, it is sure to elicit some laughs, and I enjoyed it for a fun, easy read.

122) Loving Your Husband Well: A 52-Week Devotional for the Deeper, Richer Marriage Your Desire by Lisa Jacobson—This was a good, and convicting devotional to read. I did start late, and so ended up reading more than one devotional a week to get through in a year. Each devotional was well-laid out, though, based around a scripture with reflection and application questions, as well as a prayer to pray. Through this book, I was convicted about the many ways I can learn to love my husband better—through physical affection, selfless service and more—for the sake of the good of our marriage and the glory of the gospel. I highly recommend this book for Christian wives!

123) So Over My Head by Jenny B. Jones—Klutzy high school reporter Bella Kirkwood is back at it again, and in over her head trying to solve both a mystery regarding her father in New York, as well as a murder at a circus in Truman, Oklahoma. She has broken up with her editor turned boyfriend Luke Sullivan and is having trust issues. She is realizing what really matters, and still getting herself into predicaments. As with the last two books in these series, I was not rapt in reading, but it was fun, easy, and lighthearted. Sometimes it is good to not be in over my head with a book and rather ease in and out of it.

124) The Grace of Enough: Pursuing Less and Living More in a Throwaway Culture by Haley Stewart—Haley and Daniel Stewart converted to Catholicism while in college. In their early marriage, they moved from Florida to Waco, Texas to pursue a farm internship for Daniel, and a simpler way of life. This book is an ode to their journey, to eschewing the throwaway culture and living for God and people instead of materialism. There are plenty of references to the saints (and even Harry Potter), but overall this book reminded me about what really matters and reminded me to embrace it, especially in this very worldly season of Christmas time.

125) All’s Fair in Love and Christmas by Sarah Monzon—This book definitely makes my best reads of the year list. The author develops characters Mackenzie Graham and Jeremy Fletcher with depth. The plot of a work contest and subplots of the individual’s personal lives are both comedic and poignant. The book contains scriptural and psychological truths about anxiety and management of it. Happily ever after does work out in the end, but with a workplace conclusion I did not expect. Overall, this is great book about finding the meaning of Christmas in serving others rather than amassing gains for self. I applaud this author and wish my library had more of her books for me to read!

126) Small Town Christmas by Gail Gaymer Martin—This was a quick Christmas novella about Chicago city teacher Amy Carroll who goes home to Harrisville to work as a temporary teacher. There, she falls for twin mischief makers Holly and Ivy (born December 24) and their widowed father, Mike Russet. There are some sweet and poignant moments here, as well as a call to trust God and look to Him for joy. The book is too short to develop a very sophisticated plot, but that just makes it a good short and small read for Christmas time.

127) Work Song: Three Views of Frank Lloyd Wright: A Play by Jeffrey Hatcher, Directed by Eric Simonsen & Brenden Fox Starring Robert Foxworth and Amy Brenneman—I gained an interest in Frank Lloyd Wright after living near the sites of several of his buildings, as well as a blog depicting visits to some of his other works (The Birchwood Pie Project). Through this fictional play, I learned more about Wright’s life and projects. Overall, as the commentators to the play state, Wright was a great architect, but not a great man. He was a womanizer, an absent father, a manipulator, a poor financial manager, and more. He was also known for his lack of truthfulness, which leads to no one really knowing what went on in his life. Though short, this play does intrigue me and make me want to learn more about the man and his work, unsavory though he was.

128) Her Christmas Cowboy by Brenda Minton—Russian adoptee turned Oklahoma bull rider and cowboy Travis Cooper is a flirt and has never dated a woman long enough to see a future with her. Elizabeth Harden is a businesswoman from St. Louis, recently jilted by her fiancee, and in town only long enough to fulfill publicity duties for her father. Then an ice storm hits, and she is forced to stay in town. She and Travis hit it off, and yes, in one week, fall in love, but not without some misunderstandings. I enjoyed the focus on faith, family, and presence in this book. It made for a nice short and sweet read before the holidays.

129) I’ll Be There (But I’ll Be Wearing Sweatpants): Finding Unexpected, Real-Life Friendships in This Crazy, Chaotic World by Amy Weatherly and Jess Johnston—This book was not life-changing, but it was real. As such it focused on the real-life struggles of friendships: the insecurities, the breakups, and the drifting apart. It also focused on the power of communication, genuineness, and vulnerability. Written by two real life friends, complete with personal stories, and read in their own voices (I listed on audio), it was a good reminder that being friends takes time and work, but that maintaining friends is vital to personal and communal health.

130) The Cowboy’s Christmas Courtship by Brenda Minton—After an injury on the bull riding circuit, Gage Cooper comes home to Dawson Creek to make amends. That stays with Layla Silvers, the high school friend he jilted. Layla is trying to keep it all together raise her 15 year-old brother Brandon. She doesn’t ask for help, even though she needs it. Gage offers help, even imposes it, and before long, he is falling for her. The problem is that he doesn’t have a history of staying around. Rather, he runs when things get hard. This is a Christmas tale of two people facing painful pasts and in the midst of that, learning to love. Sure, three weeks of renewed friendship is short to turn into a courtship, but hey, it’s a Christmas novella and that’s the way things work!

131) Season of Hope by Virginia Carmichael—Evie Thorne and Dr. Gavin Sawyer meet on The Mission finance committee. They're a bit star struck, even in their harried states, and they only grow more so as time passes. The problem is that they are both fighting guilt. Evie is wrestling with a decision she made years ago. Gavin is trying to save the city from a Pertussis outbreak. Paths collide and Gavin's sister Allison and her son Sean enter the mix. This is sweet story about love, forgiveness, and hope for the future. More poignant than some Christmas novellas, it was a good read.

132) Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry—I listened to this book on audio, and boy was it a doozy! I don’t recommend if you are triggered by talk of abandonment, addiction, drugs, or sex. It has lots of those. It is also full of bad language. So why did I listen? Because I always wonder about people’s stories. Though I never watched the show Friends, I watched the world mourn after Perry’s abrupt and unexpected death. I wondered what happened. This book pretty much explains it. He eerily writes that this is his “after death book, and at this point, it sadly is. In the book, he is writing after colon surgery and pneumonia that left him, at one point, on an ECMO machine. That is the interludes of the story, though. The rest is the story of a young baby given phenobarbital for colic, a boy feeling abandoned by his parents, an adult struggling with addiction, and a man who wanted love, but could not stomach the risks of it. Perry writes of 65 detoxes and not thinking he could make it through another one. Sadly, this was the true story. He writes of encounters with “God,” but never with Jesus. He never talks about true salvation. He writes of thinking his purpose was to help other addicts, all the while wanting a different brain that would not be addicted. This is really a sad tale, a reminder that loneliness is truly terrible, that everyone needs someone—even a very rich and famous person—and that addiction (“the big terrible thing”) is a real disease that needs ongoing support and treatment. While I would not recommend this book, it was sadly insightful and I hope it motivates me, if nothing else, to have more empathy and compassion for the people around me.

133) Inheritance: A Memoir of Genealogy, Paternity, and Love by Dani Shapiro—Author Dani Shapiro’s world changed when she got back the results of her genetic test. She wasn’t related to her half-sister, at all. Thus started a winding path to discovering that she was conceived via artificial insemination, at a time when this was far from kosher for her Orthodox Jewish parents. Shapiro goes from thinking her parents knew, to understanding that they did not. She goes on a long search to find her biological father, and surprise, she actually does. She goes on to see if building a relationship with him will answer her questions and feel the father-shaped hole within her. In the end, she is forced to make peace with uncertainty, to let life be as it may, and to embrace all of herself, even the parts she never knew, but now does, forcing her to understand her identity in new ways. Her inheritance is so much more than biology, but it is biology, too.

134) Hazel Says No by Jessica Berger Gross—Hazel Greenberg Blum says, “No,” when propositioned by her new high school principal. That sets off a firestorm of events in her town, and in her family. Through it, she learns how to keep standing up for herself, saying, “No” to things that aren’t right for her, and even an occasional yes. I read this book after a recommendation from Kendra Adachi in her Lazy Genius newsletter. Honestly, I am kind of surprised she recommended it because of the content matters and because of the language. Yes, it’s well written (and possibly part autobiographical of the author?), but the subject matter is intense. Definitely read with care, and it is okay to say, “No to this book, too.

135) When Making Others Happy is Making You Miserable by Karen Ehman—This was a good book! While I no longer think of myself as a people pleaser, (I say, “No,” a lot, probably most of the time), I do think I care too much about what people think of me. Through her own stories, as well as practical advice, Ehman challenges readers to live for God’s pleasure first, loving others second. Fearing man is idolatry, she states. Ouch! Ehman reminds readers that being capable of doing something does not necessarily indicate calling. Every, “Yes” is a “No” to something else. As I consider this next year and seek out what God has for me, I need these reminders. Although I consider myself a, “No,” woman, I still think I am giving away too many of my, “Yeses.”

136) The Marriage Devotional: 52 Days to Strengthen the Soul of Your Marriage by Levi and Jennie Lusko—This was our weekly devotional for 2025, and it was solid. Compromised of 12 different topical sections, it covered a comprehensive list of marriage topics, from the biblical purpose of marriage, to dating, to sex, to planning for the future, and so much more. Written in the voices of Levi and Jennie Lusko (sometimes together, sometimes separate), each week’s reading had a “Bring it Home” section, as well as “Conversation Starters” and a prayer. Questions and activities did help us deepen our connection, understand one another better, and grow in the Lord. I would definitely recommend this marriage devotional to others, and I think I will keep it around to revisit in another few years. It’s that good!

137) The Bible—Another trip through the Bible—thank you, Lord! (Side note, does this count as one book or 66 books?) This year, I made my first trip through the English Standard Version, using, for the first time, a chronological Bible reading plan, in conjunction with the Bible Recap podcast. I listened to and/or watched each book’s introduction from The Bible Project. It was good to get a fresh look on the Bible through these means. I found it both helpful and difficult to read such big chunks of the Bible at a time. (In past plans, I read a little from four parts of the Bible at once, rather than all from one part.) I did learn a lot. I continue to be convicted that “the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart” (Heb 4:12, ESV). I hope that I get to continue reading the Bible for as I live and have the cognitive and physical abilities to do so.

138) There You’ll Find Me by Jenny B. Jones—Another one by Jenny B. Jones, and though it is a young adult book, this one packs some punches (and was made into a movie). Set primarily in Ireland, it is the story of hotel heiress Finley Sinclair’s foreign exchange year, a year she hopes will reset her life after it fell into smithereens when her older brother died. Along the way, she meets actor Beckett Rush, a man she is determined not to like, but somehow does. This book hits some hard topics like cancer, eating disorders, and grief. It has some funny moments, but also some very poignant ones. Lessons about connection to God, presence, and learning to stay, even when things get hard stand out. This is a good book, but might should be read with support or check-ins for some youth, especially younger ones.

139) Catching Whimsy: 365 Days of Possibility by Bob Goff—I am a big Bob Goff fan, and this devotional delivers spiritual truth in his signature style. Some stories I have heard before, and some are new. With each reading comes Scripture, encouragement to embrace Jesus and who he made you to be, and a call to go out and love the world with that. I appreciated this devotional’s dedication to practical, lived out faith, as well as the encouragement to embrace some whimsy and delight while doing it.

140) The Magnolia Story by Chip and Joanna Gaines with Mark Dagostino—This is the story of Fixer Upper: from the pilot episode shoot, back to when Chip and Joanna met and got married, to building the silos sight they have now. They write about financial troubles, about focusing on perfection instead of family, about miracles that helped them achieve their dreams, and about finding contentment in the journey. They write some about their faith, but vaguely. That fits, because this is the story of their company. I would be interested to read more about their faith and how that affected their life, family, and work as well. They have a few more books for me to explore, so maybe I just have not read that story yet.

Note: In this audio book, Chip and Joanna alternate reading, making for a very entertaining listen. I recommend audiobook format if accessible!

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Readers, what do you think? Should I keep recapping my reading like this? Is there anything else you would like to see in my reading reviews? Please let me know in the comments.

Tuesday, December 30, 2025

Strong(er) in December/Stronger in 2025


Sometimes progress isn’t linear. Day to day, I don’t think I am making any gains, but then I look back, and I am think, “Wow, God. Thank you! I actually did go somewhere!”


I set out this year to become stronger in faith, marriage, and body. It’s hard to quantify faith growth, but I did finish the The Bible Recap, daily podcasts, Bible Project intros, and all. While not my favorite Bible reading plan, by reading in big chunks like I did, I did learn some things about the ways that Scripture hangs together as a hole. Praise God for how he shows up in Scripture over and over again.


I mostly listened to my one (or more) marriage podcast(s) a week. I kept praying for my husband thanks to the note on my daily to do list. We finished our marriage devotional. We took some trips (like the Hoover Dam Half Marathon trip in December) and went on some dates. (We finally got to see the cougar shadow!) We still miscommunicate a lot, but I think I am spiraling less, and therefore we recover faster. (Thanks, counseling, for helping a lot with that!)


This year, I graduated physical therapy (or asked to graduate, and they said, “Yes.”). I have added physical therapy exercises for my legs to my daily arms, routine, however. I got through all of the new free workouts published on the Nourish Move Love YouTube channel. I think my endurance has strengthened through my running. While I cannot do a full-pull-up, I did go from 50-125 pounds resistance band support down to 15-35 pounds for my last go-round of the assisted pull-up program. If I work really hard, I can get my nose to the bar unassisted. I am not really any bigger or buffer than I started the year, but functionally, my strength has grown. I also found out that I can sometimes up my dumbbells to 15 pounds for workouts—something I discovered unintentionally when I grabbed the wrong weights, but then patted myself on the back for afterwards.


Overall, I have realized that a lot of physical strength comes down to mental strength. I have also realized that I can't have it all. Pull-ups had to get rushed to get out the door for running. If I really wanted to get physically stronger, I would need to drop the running. I think that applies for my other goals as well. Time with my husband and pouring into that relationships sometimes meant sacrificing my own personal time and sleep. Trips meant less finances for other things. God-time meant less frivolous time, a worthy sacrifice, but still a sacrifice.


Overall, I'm not sure I gained a lot of quantifiable strength. By God's grace, I think I just might have learned about prioritizing and gotten a little stronger in practicing that. Believe me, I have a long way to go, and I think that lesson of not being able to do all the things with strength will carry into 2026 and beyond.

Monday, December 29, 2025

The Crystallized Moments of 2025

So many moments from this year...these are the ones that stuck with me.

See here for 2024 list.

Meeting pro athletes at the Hoka group run



PRing at the Mesa 10K



Brunching with my husband after Pat's Run



The privilege of being a Sparkle Runner at the Girls on the Run 5K



The feeling of flying as I ran the Bay Bridge Half Marathon



Catching snow in Big Bear


Reuniting with my parents in Texas


Dinner with my hubby after Global Running Day



Ringing the PR gong in the rain with my bestie's baby


The stunning beauty of the Traverse Mountain Half Marathon


The ease of a relaxed and quiet dinner with my in-laws over Thanksgiving


Lake Mead views



It's been a good one: Lots of running, lots of time with my love; family time.... Thank the good Lord, the author of "every good and perfect gift!" (English Standard Version, 2019, James 1:17).

Reference:

English Standard Version. (2019). Bible Gateway. https://www.biblegateway.com/versions/English-Standard-Version-ESV-Bible/#copy


















Saturday, December 27, 2025

2025 Food Trends

It's time for all the yearly wrap-ups, and this one being about our food trends. This past year, I cooked mostly from Meal Prep in an Instant. I tended to half the protein in the recipes, as it was more than we needed, but other than that, I seriously recommend the book. We're not finished with it yet, as I cook based on what we have on hand and what we need, rather than the full meal plan each book. Still, this is a resource I would recommend!


I feel into some ruts with other cooking. Dumpling soups had their moment. My husband ate many varieties of lentil soup for his lunches. Muffins somewhat died off. Pumpkin had more than its moment in the sun (and is still easing its way out). I ate overnight oats almost every day. I got somewhat fixated on Pop-tarts, trying five of the boxed kind and making two from scratch. 


After several all day sourdough projects, I decided using discard is my way to do sourdough. With that, I made A LOT of bagels, as well as some other recipes.



I completed 12 Sally's Baking Challenges.


I did a few Fit Foodie Find Cooking Club Challenges and a few from Budget Bytes. (Neither seemed to be regular.)



I am still kind of over cooking. I guess I really like and dislike it at the same time. It is time consuming and tedious, but it also produces great results. There is something so satisfying about saying, "I made this." And so, because it is both duty and delight, it shall continue, unless the Lord somehow deems otherwise.

Eats and Empties (Week 52)


The Weekly Eats:

Big healthy protein pop tarts (Hayl's Kitchen)

Brown sugar and cinnamon sourdough pop tarts (Pantry Mama)

Gingerbread pancakes (Budget Bytes)

Healthy applesauce muffins (Eating Bird Food)

Christmas Cheese-Mas Recipes:

Savory s'mores on herb and cheese cookies (Spoon Fork Bacon)

Cream cheese s'mores (Clean Eating Mag) on honey cinnamon sourdough graham crackers (Cultured Guru)

For our Greek Breakfast Spread (The Greek Foodie):


Greek sesame bread rings (Lemon and Olives)

Soft boiled eggs (Love and Lemons)

For our Mediterranean lunch:

Greek lemon-roasted potatoes (Plants Rule)

Middle Eastern lentil soup (More with Less)

Christmas Feast Day Recipes (All made by my husband except the pickles, and cookies):


Chicken schwarma

Easy hummus (Inspired Taste)

Homemade pita bread (My Greek Taste)

Quick pickled cucumbers (The Mediterranean Dish)

Roasted cauliflower and carrots (Healthy Mom and Healthy Family)

Tabbouleh (Love and Lemons)

Traditional toum (Lebanese garlic sauce) (Serious Eats)

Kourambiethes (Greek Christmas cookies) (Lemon and Olives)

The Empties:

Jar of applesauce
Two pound bag of baby carrots
Head of cauliflower
Two pound bag of cheddar jack cheese
Frozen shredded chicken (365 Days of Crockpot)
Fruit pouches
Three pound bag of clementine oranges
Too much garlic to count!
Container of Greek yogurt
Fresh lemons
Jar of molasses
Two pound bag of mozzarella cheese
Frozen chopped onion
Bunch of parsley
Can of pumpkin
Frozen sourdough discard pumpkin bagels (This Jess Cooks)
Head of romaine lettuce
Sesame seeds

What went to waste:
    

A few mushy strawberries

Wednesday, December 24, 2025

2025 Christmas Movies

Christmas movie viewing season starts for us on 10/31. As a result, we get to fit in quite a few fun, sweet, and (very often) cheesy movies. It's not about the quality of the movie per se, but the spirit, and as such, I like to make memes to represent all the silly plots lines and faux pas. Here is this year's list.

The Art of ChristmasLiv James, teacher turned artist, is live with excitement about her first gallery show. A fire started by the caterers ruins it all, though, and she has to return to teaching. There she meets Mr. Jake Hartley, a man she actually first met at the gallery. They form a connection, but there is the problem of Bradley, Liv's very wealthy boyfriend. There is certainly lots of cheesy pick-up lines and stilted acting here. Messages about the art of love, supporting kids, and being yourself carry the film, though, and make it a worthwhile watch.


Candy Cane ChristmasFloral designer Phoebe and veterinarian Eric are each struggling to recover from last Christmas's breakups.They keep surreptitiously meeting, but their perceptions of each other are all wrong. Fortunately, Eric's Aunt Maggie keeps bringing them together, and it all works out. This is a sweet movie about the power of mistakes, making up, starting over, and making the Christmas season count. I recommend it!

-Christmas à la Mode—Emily White is trying to save her family’s dairy form. Meanwhile, her sister and co-inheritor Dorothy is trying to sell the farm to the highest bidder. Caught in the middle is Charlie, Dorothy’s coworker and Emily’s frenemy turned love interest. Things are down to the last wire in fundraising, and somehow things come through. It's a Christmas miracle—maybe expected, but still sweet as can be!


Christmas in Scotland
New York window designer Emma McKenzie goes to Scotland with her father to uncover their family lineage. She is shocked to find that Glenrothie doesn't celebrate Christmas. When a competition for best Christmas village comes around, though, she rises to the occasion. While the plot for this movie has some unexpected twists and turns, the acting, especially on behalf of Alex Glenrothie, is stilted. Do the Scottish accents and beautiful countryside make up for it? It's a maybe for me.

Christmas for ThreeCinematography? Meh. Ethics? Borderline. Cute storyline with a child actor that brought me multiple laughs? Check. Benito Luaces might not be ready to be a dad, but he takes on the role of guardian for his high school best friend's son Jason joyfully. Jason knows just all the heartstrings to pull to get the adults to bend to his wishes. This is a sweet story, even if Sophie Walker really shouldn't be involved with an adult from a recently closed case.

Christmas in the Pines—Ariel and Mark both want to make Christmas perfect for their families. The only problem is that they both bought the same “perfect” cottage, and now they have to share it, or at least until one of them leaves the property since “possession is 9/10 of the law.” Of course the cottage is already outfitted, and their families bring more goods. Of course there is a story of love and loss. Of course, the main characters fall in love, but then there is a misunderstanding. Of course, there is just a little bit of Christmas magic and matchmaking. All in all, though, this is a sweet film, with nods to the true Reason for the Season, and a reminder that Christmas is not about things, but about the people and the memories.


A Dash of Christmas—Advertising consultant Megan loses her job just before the holidays and decides to go home for Christmas. Before she even gets home, she literally runs into Aaron from Hometown Bakery. When she needs to film a cooking promotional video for a new job, of course Megan goes to Aaron for help. They work well together, but then there is the crisis of whether or not they will be able to handle a long distance relationship. This is a cute, clean movie with nods to the value of family, love, military, and trying new things. I enjoyed it!

A Furry Little ChristmasNew York City veterinarian and widow Dr. Scarlet Miller goes home to Vermont to visit her dad. There she gets back into farm medicine, and meets a local doctor (Josh Foster). He is from New York, but likes the country. Nevertheless, he and his adopted dog Banjo try to bring the feel of New York to and her son Milo. This story is more about the people who care for the animals than animals, and the ending is a bit hasty. Of course, no Christmas movie could be complete without some stilted acting. Still, there are lots of warm fuzzies to be had from this movie, and it’s worth watching at least once.


A Perfect Christmas CarolHandyman Max meets Pastry Chef Carol when he keeps the Christmas tree from falling on her. Of course, they fall in love, dinners with wine, feathered couch pillow fights, and all. From Los Angeles, Carol goes home to Redbridge, Vermont with Max in hopes of learning his mother's Christmas kringle recipe. She is a Christmas grinch. His mother is overprotective and a Christmas zealot. There are a few sweet spots in this movie, but also a lot of cattiness, what feels like a forced a nod to a homosexual relationship, and overall just too much drama. This was far from a perfect Christmas movie for me.

Together at Christmas—Artist Ava travels from New York City west to Tinsel, California over Christmas. There she meets widower Dr. Mason, and his adorable daughter Mia. She doesn’t plan on falling in love—with the town, or with the family, but she does. There is the complication of her boyfriend Dean, but he asks for a break, and then breaks things off. I’d rather that have happened at the beginning of the plot, but alas, it’s at the end, as everything is coming together. Rylie Coe is fantastic as Mia. The rest of the cast, well, some of them are a little stilted. Overall, this is a cheesy Christmas movie, but still one that’s fun to watch together to start the Christmas season.



Saturday, December 20, 2025

Eats and Empties (Week 51)


The Eats:

Brunswick stew (Budget Bytes)

Chocolate syrup (Oatrageous Oatmeals)

Healthy gingerbread muffins (Hummusapien)

Gingerbread breakfast cookies (The Clean Eating Couple)

Healthier pumpkin muffins (Frugal HouseFrau)

Icebox slice and bake cookies (Sally's Baking)

Oreo-stuffed brownies (All Recipes)

Smoky potato chickpea stew (Budget Bytes)

The Empties:

Brownie mix
Five pound bag of carrots
A Costco size bag of string cheese/cheese sticks
Box of chicken broth
Bar of dark chocolate
Box of cinnamon toast crunch
Bag of Hershey's cocoa
Carton of 18 eggs
Can of fire-roasted diced tomatoes
Two bags of frozen green beans
Half gallon of milk
Frozen pan de mie sandwich bread (The Perfect Loaf)
Five pound bag of potatoes
Head of romaine lettuce
Frozen skinny white gravy (Chocolate Salad)
Another frozen batch of my standby sourdough discard bagels (Farmhouse on Boone)
Twenty-eight ounce can of diced tomatoes

What went to waste:
    

Nothing that I know of!

Monday, December 15, 2025

Afghan 88


I started this afghan as a third afghan in progress because I did not want to take the other partially made ones on my trips. (I like to crochet on trips.) What do you know? It's the first one that I finished!

Yes, it is another white afghan. I work with the yarn I have, or can access easily. In this case it is Mainstays white from Walmart. The blanket is not quite as pretty spread out, as folded. Somewhere I must have made a mistake, because the afghan ripple is skewed slightly to one side. When washed and blocked, however, I do not think it will be an issue. Plus, I want a baby to get the use the blanket, not just look at it, so better practical than perfect!

Here are the specs--

Hook: Size I placed into a Boye ergonomic crochet hook handle

Yarn: 

Mainstays white

Pattern: Crochet ripple baby blanket (Only as Brave)

Finished size: 30 by 40 inches

Saturday, December 13, 2025

Eats and Empties (Week 50)


The Eats:

Easy lentil potato soup (Cooking LSL)

Dolly Parton's chicken and dumplings (365 Days of Slow Cooking)

Five-ingredient apple cider braised chicken (Skinny Ms)

Instant Pot potatoes and carrots (Margin Making Mom)

Lussekatter (St. Lucy's Buns) (Everything Happens with Kate Bowler)

Meatball subs (Budget Bytes) 

Pumpkin ginger muffins (Food.com)

Skinny white gravy (Chocolate Salad)

Spicy white chicken chili (Meal Prep in an Instant)

The Empties:

Jar of applesauce
Bag of baby carrots
Five pound bag of carrots
Bag of chia seeds
Chicken bouillon cubes
Box of chicken broth
Candied ginger
Box of Girl Scouts frosted coconut caramel Pop-Tarts
Container of Greek yogurt
Bag of frozen green beans
Green peppers
Frozen hearty meatball soup (Budget Bytes) 
Frozen homemade meatballs (Budget Bytes)
Frozen homemade pizza sauce (Budget Bytes)
Jalapeños
Bottle of lemon juice
Half gallon of milk
Frozen onions
Onion
Three pound bag of onions
Pound of poblano peppers
Fifteen pound bag of potatoes--yes, we have been working at this for a while
Can of pumpkin puree
Pumpkin spice Cheerios
Jar of Reese's filled pretzels
Box of Reese's puffs
Bottle of spicy brown mustard
Trader Joe's Pumpkin O's
Dry white beans
Frozen w
ild rice and mushroom soup (Meal Prep in an Instant)

What went to waste:
    

The jar of applesauce looked like it was getting ready to mold at the top, so I threw away that part and saved the rest of the applesauce for cooking.

A few lettuce leaves got nasty and had to be composted.

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Real Life Marriage: The Infinity Loop


We had just come off my husband finishing his degree when I decided to run a marathon. Really, I had been thinking about it for a while, and with the miles I had under me, I wanted to try it. For the first time in our marriage, it also felt safe to try. It felt like if I fell or floundered, my husband would be there to catch me.

I really struggled for a while when my husband was in school. Well, we both did. He had his nose to the grindstone with work and school, and I had mine stuck deep into keeping up the house and keeping up with my own work. It felt like there was no margin, and really, there wasn't.

Now that he's out of school, I've been chasing some other big dreams. He's been so supportive. Just the other day, I proposed a new running dream. I don't know if it will happen or not, but I felt comfortable voicing it. He didn't bat an eye. He just let me talk. What a gift!

I think marriage should be like that. I support his dreams. He supports mine. Rather than tit-for-tat, it's a give and take with infinite flow between the two. Yes, there are hurts, habits, and hang-ups along the way, but ultimately our support for one another is there, just like Christ's is for us. To Him be the glory forever, amen!

Monday, December 8, 2025

The 110% Worth It Half-Marathon


How I Decided on the Run

I don't know where I first saw the Hoover Dam half marathon, but I immediately wanted to do it. Then a work obligation got scheduled, and I thought it was off the table. When the work function got rescheduled and I once again had the weekend free, I wanted to go—bad. The problem was that the race was the week after Thanksgiving, which seemed a little risky given that we planned to travel over Thanksgiving.

When we got back from Thanksgiving and I wasn't sick, I decided I would register if my husband approved. I did that Tuesday night and started carb loading. Friday, I threw everything in a suitcase, and as soon as my husband got finished with his work meetings, we headed for Nevada. It was only a 4.5 hour drive, and with the time change, only 3.5 hours. We rolled into Hoover Dam Lodge Hotel about 7 pm, unpacked, and I was in bed by 9:30 pm.



Okay, okay. I carb loaded like a boss before I went to sleep: overnight oats, banana, two bagels, a pop tart, and fruit leather. Overall, I have carb loaded far above the minimums for my past few races, and it seems to be paying off. I have heard that the body learns to better metabolize and store glucose the more a person runs (American Diabetes Association, n.d.). I have been running a lot, so there's that.


The Morning of the Race

I did not sleep great, but I also did not sleep poorly the night before the race. I kept dreaming I checked the time and it was almost time to get up, but then I would actually check my watch, and it would not be time to get up. I ended up getting out of bed a little after 5 am, 6 am Arizona time, which would be sleeping in for me. I did my PT, doo-daddled around with DuoLingo, word games, etc. After my husband got up a little after 6 am, I realized that I really needed to read my Bible and get dressed so that we could leave by 6:45 AM as planned.

We headed downstairs and redeemed our free coffees. The small size was 16 ounces, which is more than I usually drink, but I poured my RNWY in anyway and started sipping. The drive to Lake Mead Recreational Area was less than 10 minutes, but I ate my chocolate sourdough discard bagel during that time, while also sipping on the coffee. The views driving down to the lake were gorgeous. Even before I started running, I thought, “This was 110% worth it.” That sentiment continued throughout the day.

I hopped out of the car and picked up my bib—easy-peasy. The race shirt was pretty cool, but cotton, and I did not want to wear cotton to run. I went round and round about what to wear, as I had been very cold at the Iowa race, and a little cold while running in Utah. Some people recommended a tank top and shorts for racing in the predicted 40-50 degree temperatures (Mahoney, 2025). Others recommended long sleeves and running tights (Lea Genders, 2018). I am cold natured, so went with the latter.

Pinning my bib on was an exercise in frustration. Bib Boards are great for not ruining my shirts, and really pretty easy to use when putting them on at home. Putting them on a shirt in the car, not so easy. After one re-do, I got the bib on good enough and hopped out for pictures in front of the beautiful lake. Seriously, it was gorgeous! I felt 110% happy about the race, and it had not even started!

I went to the bathroom three times before this race: at 7:30, 7:40, and 8 am. At 8 am, after the marathoners left, I did a mile warmup. I sipped a little bit of water and then started the race at 8:30 am.

Goals:

The goal for this race was to run it as my 16 mile workout. That meant 3 miles easy, 3 x 3 miles at marathon pace, with a 1 mile easy pace in between. With this, I decided not to gel before the race, but before each harder interval. That meant I took my first gel at 2.5 miles, my second at 6, and my third at 10. I had several more, but felt good, so left it at that. I did not seem to be sweating much, so I ditched the idea of salt tabs, despite the fact that they were rattling in their bottle in my pocket the whole way. I did take a cup of water from every aid station, which were about every two miles. A little cramping afterward made me wonder if I got enough salt, though (Eicher, 2007). It is hard to know.

Course:

Miles 1-3
The course started with a little uphill, but honestly it wasn't bad. I ran easy, about 9:07/mile. The paved path took us back up towards our hotel, but with beautiful views of the lake. The path changed to packed dirt here, which was pretty easy to run on, but having read about the dirt path and need for sturdy road shoes, I had chosen my Brooks Ghost 16 over my Asics Magic Speed, and I was glad for them here. More on that later.



Miles 3-6
I hit my first marathon pace interval here, and honestly, I was a little afraid it would feel super hard. Somehow, it didn't. I was so grateful! I started hitting the railroad tunnels, and was in and out of those for the duration. While it was hard to see in the tunnels with my sunglasses, I enjoyed their reprieves of coolness, and it was kind of fun hearing the footsteps of other runners echoing inside them. I think that the tunnels messed up the Runkeeper tracking, so it's hard to know what my pace really was. Runkeeper said 7:00/mile, but I do not think that is quite right.



Miles 6-9
The trail started to go up and down a little bit here. The trail was also a little washed out in places, which made me glad for my sturdier shoes. I thought the trail was the switchbacks mentioned in the course description. No. Those were very tight, on a very narrow sidewalk down to the parking lot on top of the dam. While the views were cool, this was honestly an annoying part of the course. People pretty much had to run single file each way. It was steep. People should have yelled, “Corner” like in restaurants. Oh, and there were some visitors with a dog that ran in front of me and almost tripped me up. Yeah, not my favorite part.




It was a little bit of a climb back on the trail, but not too bad. Most of the climbing happened in the mile easy, which was a blessing. I hit the railroad tunnels again, which was probably my second favorite part. (My first favorite was the lake views.) My GPS seemed to be off, though, as I found it no longer matched the course mile markers (which were large and often, which I appreciated). I told myself I was not racing and didn't want to blow up, so I just did the best I could and went with it.

I lost my gloves somewhere in here. I had been taking them on and off, tucking them into the elastic strap of my running belt as I went. They must have fallen out when I did not notice. Oh well. It's only a few dollars loss (unlike the AirPods case I lost on the run earlier this year)

Miles 10-12
I started passing people as we started a slight descent. I was technically at my mile easy at 11 miles, but with it all downhill, I pretty much kept the prescribed marathon pace of 8:00/mile or under. I was not really sure where I would hit the turnaround, and with my GPS being off, I did not really know where to push myself, either. I figured that the last miles would all be in my marathon pace block, so I just kept after it.

Miles 12-13.1 Thankfully the course was well marked, and there were people in front of me. I got to the turnaround and I think I was about at 13 miles on my watch, but then I hit the 12 mile mark. It was a bit of a climb, but not terrible. I passed a few more people.

The last bit of the race was downhill. I passed one more lady and went through the finish. My watch said 13.84 miles, but the course was USATF certified, so I trusted it more than my watch. I had a time of 1:52:13, and chip time was 1:52:09, so pretty close!

After the race:

I got my medal, water, and Gatorade and went and had my husband take medal photos. I asked how to check time (since my phone had no data, and therefore no internet access), and was told to go over to a computer near the finish line. I was surprised to see a second place age group finish listed. I told my husband that would mean we needed to wait for the awards ceremony at 11 am. First, I had 1.9 more miles to knock out, though.

I jogged a 1.9 mile loop down towards the lake and back. It was lovely. I had thought the race was 110% worth it before I even started running, and now that the race was finished, I thought so even more. I stretched while waiting for the award ceremony to start, and chugged more water since I probably had not had enough.

The awards ceremony went fairly quickly. They called up the overall men's and women's winners, and then age group awards. I was a little scared when I was not called up second, as listed. I thought it might be a Foster 5K situation where I got knocked out of my place, but instead, I got first place! I was the only one present, though, which seemed weird. All podium finishers got cool coffee mugs, though, so I did not feel too terrible about having possibly got the wrong award.



We hoofed it back to the hotel so I could foam roll and shower. (The hotel was very kind and graciously allowed us a later checkout.) I had a few muscle cramps/spasms before the race, and once back, I still felt sore. That continued through lunch and the rest of the day. Maybe it was the downhill? Maybe it was the marathon pace intervals? I don't really know. I ran the whole race several minutes slower than I did in Utah, and that race also had hills, though not so long or gradual.

Final thoughts:
While this was a turn and burn trip, it really was 110% worth it to me to go. Yes, it was inconvenient. Yes, the race registration cost about $110 dollars. No, I didn't PR, or even beat my last training run half-marathon. But the Hoover Dam half marathon was fun. It was beautiful. I got to do my long run in a new place. My husband and I got to go out of town together. This trip was good. This trip was worth it. I am so so thankful to God for this opportunity!

References:

American Diabetes Association. (n.d.). Blood glucose and exercise. https://diabetes.org/health-wellness/fitness/blood-glucose-and-exercise

Eichner E. R. (2007). The role of sodium in 'heat cramping'. 
Sports medicine (Auckland, N.Z.)37(4-5), 368–370. https://doi.org/10.2165/00007256-200737040-00024

Genders, L. (2018, November 9). What to wear to the Dallas Marathon in any temperature.
Lead Genders Fitness. https://www.leagendersfitness.com/news/what-to-wear-to-run-the-dallas-marathon-in-any-temperature?fbclid=IwAR3qC6E4O7yJRdmUCOiMjKOAB9daAytMUoeJW9IC__6etEymDtLaPEBQ3-4&amp%3Bformat=amp

Mahoney, M. (2025, November 25).
Turkey trotters! Here’s a little guide for you- as always, know thyself and do what works for you! Good luck! [Photo]. Instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/DReqR-yke24/img_index=2&epik=dj0yJnU9b1NxbGxQWXMzWExtNUl5NTZ2ZjZHRHQ0ZGtBbFptbzUmcD0wJm49a1N2WEhEdVBzQ1Z5VWZFbE5ZWE1FQSZ0PUFBQUFBR2sxcDFV