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Sunday, May 10, 2020

My Mother's Legacy


My mom joined her first prayer group sometime when I was in elementary school. I don't remember thinking much about it until we moved to Arizona and she started wearing her pink Moms in Touch button everywhere we went: to school, to the store, to the library, etc. She said she didn't know of any local prayer groups, and she was determined to find one.

Fast forward a few years, and Mom found a group. I don't remember the details. I just know she joined.

Fast forward to my college years, during which Mom was more and more involved in Moms in Prayer. Post-college, Mom was the first one to remind me of the National Collegiate Day of Prayer each year. When a friend of mine (also the daughter of a Moms in Prayer intercessor) asked me if I wanted to meet for weekly prayer, I was on board. We even used Moms in Prayer sheets with the ACTS method of praying as our guide!

My friend and I eventually quit praying together. I think one of us changed jobs. I know I eventually moved. I kept up the practice of making weekly prayer sheets and spending 30 minutes in prayer, however. Thirty minutes was not the length of an actual Moms in Prayer meeting, but it worked for me.

As I've entered my third decade of life, I've continued my prayer practice. It isn't always as regular as I would like, but I do it. My mother, meanwhile, continues in Moms in Prayer. She has taken on more and more responsibilities as time has passed: praying in multiple groups, leading groups, and even serving on the area and state-wide teams. Two years ago, I had the opportunity to go to a Moms in Prayer conference with my mom and my sister-in-law. My sister-in-law was actually pregnant with my niece at the time, so we had three generations present. It was a special time for all of us.

This year for Mother's Day, I bought two prayer shirts from Moms in Prayer. The, "Pray 'Em Up" quote on the shirts referenced the movie War Room, and the talk my mom, sister-in-law, and I heard at the Moms in Prayer conference from Actress Karen Abercrombie. I asked my husband to do a little photo shoot with my mom and I wearing the shirts. It was the most tangible way I could think to document the legacy my mother is leaving me: the legacy of prayer.

My mom has always prayed. She prayed before Moms in Prayer. She prays through Moms in Prayer. She prays outside of Moms in Prayer. I can always text, call, or e-mail Mom with prayer requests and know they are covered. My mom has prayed me through some of the lowest lows and highest highs of my life. I no longer live with or even near my mom, but I feel the power of her prayers, day in and day out. Prayer is Mom's access to a Higher Power, and because Mom taught me to pray, and I prayed a prayer of saving faith many years ago, I now have access to that same power. And Christ's power is the greatest power and legacy of all.
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Happy Mother's Day, Mom, and to all the mothers out there!

Monday, September 10, 2018

Unshaken Prayer Conference

I worked a half day on Friday, and then we headed to Phoenix to get my sister-in-law from the airport. Her flight got a little delayed, so Mom got some coffee while we waited. I crocheted.



We swung by the church to drop off Mom to check in for the Unshaken Conference and then ran to Chic-Fil-A to get some dinner. I got into the worship time a little late, but I made it.



The first night, we worshipped with 29:11 and then heard from Cheryl Saks of Bridge Builders and Sally Burke, Moms in Prayer President. My two take-aways were that secular schools cannot meet the spiritual needs of students and that God is not shaken. The key verse for the event was Psalm 16:8,"I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken" (New International Version, NIV). The more we look to God, the more we will be like Him, unshaken.



We got to bed pretty late Friday night, but we still woke up early. So Mom and I went for a walk. We discovered some lovely little water features in the middle of an industrial center and apartment complex.



Day two of the conference was intense, but good. The focus was on persevering prayer, even when we don't have answers or see answers. One of the speakers talked about how sometimes we persevere in prayer not so that we get what we want, but to remind others to pray and not give up. Karen Abercrombie, aka Miss Clara of War Room, talked about how God led her to that role. Basically, she prayed and waited 13 years to play a character like this. Her testimony was pretty powerful. We had a boxed lunch and fellowship, and then more stories about how God is working around the world through prayer.



I don't know that I'll ever be a prayer warrior like my mom, but I'm glad I had a chance to go to this conference with her and my sister-in-law. In the midst of all the craziness, I do need to remember to look up instead of looking down or in. I tend to be an easily shaken person, but I serve an unshakeable God, and prayer is my connection to Him.


Monday, November 4, 2024

Praying Process Over Product


My mom told me recently that she was not sure how to pray about something. My first inclination was to tell her to pray the Lord's prayer: "Your kingdom come, your will be done" (New International Version, 2011, Matthew 8:9). While it is not wrong to pray for specific things, whether they be the desires of our hearts, or specific convictions, more and more, I am convinced that I need to pray more process than product prayers.

What do process prayers look like? Instead of praying for my man/woman to win the election, I need to pray that they know Christ as Savior. Instead of praying that I will find what I want when I go grocery shopping, I need to pray that I am a good witness. Instead of praying that my husband will do this or that, I need to pray that he becomes the man God wants him to be (Rainey, 2016). Instead of praying for a specific outcome of a situation, I pray that I am (or they are) conformed to the image of Christ. 

Are process prayers always the prayers to pray? No. Jesus prayed for specific things, like that if it was God's will, he could escape the Matthew 26:39). Specific verses in the Bible request prayers for specific things (eg Hannah praying for a son). In some cases, God even told people not to pray (e.g. Jeremiah 7:17, 11:14, 14:11). Many, many of the examples of prayer in the Bible, though are about process: prayer to be delivered from evil, the Lord's prayer (as quoted above), prayer to proclaim the gospel fearlessly (Ephesians 6:19-20), etc. Let us consider that when we pray.

For me, praying process over product prayer helps align my heart with the Lord's. It turns my eyes off what I want onto what God wants, and to what His will is. I think that is where He wants my heart, with His, and as long as he continues to lead this way, this is the way I will pray: with Him, for Him, because only he can produce the products of righteousness and salvation, the things we ultimately, and eternally need.

References:

New International Version. (2011). BibleGateway.com. http://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-International-Version-NIV-Bible/#booklist

Rainey, B. (2016). Letters to my daughter. Bethany House Publishers.

Friday, January 29, 2016

God is our Intercessor.

My mom is a prayer warrior. She taught me to pray using the ACTS model:


Adoration: Praise of God for who He is
Confession: Repentance for personal and corporate sin

Thanksgiving: Thanking God for blessings and for answered prayer
Supplication: Making requests of God


[The Moms in Prayer, "Four Steps of Prayer" article explains each step (by different names) in more depth.]


I like to use my adoration time to reflect on a specific aspect of God's character, as supported by scripture. This week, I chose to reflect on God as Intercessor. According to The Navigator's website, attribute means that, "knowing our temptations, God the Son intercedes for us. He opens the doors for us to boldly ask God the Father for mercy. Thus, God is both the initiation and conclusion of true prayer."


Below are the verses I found that reflect this attribute of God:

Isaiah 53:12
Therefore I will give him a portion among the great, and he will divide the spoils with the strong, because he poured out his life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.

Romans 8:26-27
In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.

Romans 8:34
Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.

Hebrews 4:14-16
Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has ascended into heaven, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

Hebrews 7:25
Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.



(All verses from The New International Version, 2011)

Monday, February 24, 2025

Powerlessness and Prayer


I felt somewhat desperate about a couple of situations this past week. I was not stressing, so much as distressing, because there was absolutely nothing I could do. I was powerless. And so I prayed.

I don't know what it is about prayer that it becomes my last resort. I should pray. All along, in between, and at the end, when I feel powerless, I should pray. And yet that point of powerlessness is what most often brings me to my knees.

Someone asked me how I was processing the deep sorrow of these situations. I responded that I was thankful that my mom taught me the power of prayer. And therein lies the rub. I know that prayer works. I know the power of it, and yet I don't always call on God first.

Praying about my powerless situations provides solace. It provides peace. It didn't necessarily change anything, and it might not ever. But it helps me know that I have agency to do something. And that changes me. Now if God can only change my heart so that I more readily come to him first, rather than last. It is when I forget the truth of God's power that I am truly powerless, because without Him, and access to Him through the power of prayer, I truly am nothing!

Monday, October 3, 2016

When God Doesn't Make Sense

My family and I are struggling with some unanswered prayer right now. I won't go into specifics to preserve the anonymity of the person involved, but it's hard. And we're in the middle of a sermon series at church on prayer, which makes it really hard. We're praying, and God isn't answering.

The sermon this week was on prayer and fasting. I'll admit that I haven't fasted over this particular issue, but I have prayed; like crazy I've prayed. And though I believe in the value of the spiritual discipline of fasting, I don't believe that God is a vending machine. Putting fasting in isn't going to yield the answer to our prayer.

Here's the thing: God is sovereign. God is omniscient. God is infinite. His plans are way above ours (Isa 55:9). He's going to answer when He's going to answer, like it or not. It's not that He doesn't care, but that He cares enough to give us His best, and it's apparently not time for that.

Lots of people lose faith or give up on faith because of unanswered prayer. I can't. God is my hope. God is the reason for my existence. I didn't start up a relationship with God to make my life easy. I started it because it was the only way to have life. So I'm clinging, hoping, praying. By God's grace, I will not give up.

Tuesday, October 31, 2023

Everything I Read in October

Hip, hip hooray! I passed 100 books again this year. I really think it's because I've been reading a lot of fiction, and because I have the library's Libby app on my phone, which allows me to read anywhere and everywhere. Anyway, onto the books:

95)
Sweet Caroline by Rachel Hauck—Caroline Sweeney has stayed in her hometown for far too long. She had longed to leave, and has opportunities to do so, yet always ended up staying. Now, with an overseas job offer on the line, she’s staying to manage Frogmore Cafe, a restaurant operating at a net loss, and somehow in her hands. Then her high school sweetheart, Mitch, a man she still loves, shows up. This book has lot of twists and unexpected turns. There is a fairly clear gospel proclamation, but one that includes depiction of charismatic gifts. Although this was a good read, the end was inconclusive, leaving me feeling a little more sour than sweet.

96)
Simply Tuesday: Small-Moment Living in a Fast Moment World by Emily P. FreemanWe live in a culture that does not celebrate smallness, but this book does. Author Emily P. Freeman writes about what it is to embrace ordinary Tuesdays, sit on benches, and commune with God, others, and self. She’s doesn’t write self-righteously, but rather honestly, as a fellow struggler. She gives readers prayers to pray and questions to ask as they consider their smallness and God’s greatness. This is a beautifully written book, showcasing strong writing skills throughout the themes woven through it. The book honestly probably has a lot more than I got out of out, but for now, I’ll say I’m simply grateful to have read it.

97) Love Starts with Elle
by Rachel Hauck—Another book in the Lowcountry Romance series, this follows Elle Garvey as she continues to search for love. She thinks she's found “the one,” and gives up everything, only to have her wedding fall through. As she works to process her pain, she becomes a woman of prayer and seeks to hear God's voice. Meanwhile, widower Heath McCord is trying to recover from the pain of losing his wife and becoming a single father. He calls on Elle more than once for help, and both begin to question if they are in the right places at the right times. This is a poignant read about love, and the ultimate truth in love that is only found in Jesus. There were some charismatic faith elements to this book that felt a little uncomfortable to me, but overall this was a book that left me with all the warm feelings and inspiration the real love should.

98)
Something Old, Something New by Amy Clipston—A delightful story about learning to leave the old behind and become something new, this book follows Christine Sawyer as she pursues her dream of owing an antique mall, and Brent Nicholson who is back in town to renovate his aunt's home,, but that is all, or so he says. Christine lives in the shadow of her twin sister, Britney. Brent lives in the shadow of his failed football career. The two become fast friends and are determined to be nothing more, but at the same time, there is something new happening. This book resolves just a few too many relationships all at once, but the redemption is beautiful, too. I enjoyed reading this little bit different romance for something new.

99) Praying for Your Husband from Head to Toe: A Daily Guide to Scripture-Based Prayer
by Sharon Jaynes—What a solid, scriptural resource! In this book, the author provides 30 days of prayer guides for husbands. Each prayer is based on a scripture, and each day contains prayers for 16 areas of the husband's life: mind, eyes, ears, mouth, neck, shoulder, heart, back, arms, hands, ring finger, side, sexuality, legs, knees, and feet. The prayers were convicting to me personally, as well as for how I need to pray for my husband. I think I might actually like to pray one prayer a day to focus more earnestly. The appendix contains prayers for additional areas of a husband's life as well (salvation, fatherhood, and healing). I definitely want to come back to this book!

100)
All Our Tomorrows by Irene Hannon—A shorter, but mostly well-paced read, this book has love, suspense, and gospel message. Caroline James is trying to recover after the tragic death of her fiancee Michael Sloan. Michael's brother, David, is trying to find meaning in life. It turns out that David needs Caroline's help, and Caroline, David's, but can they let the past go and move on? With a poignant quote from Mother Teresa about the value of faithfulness over success, and a meaningful ending sermon from David's friend, Reverend Steve Dempsky about seasons, this made for a great autumn weekend read.

101)
Am I Overthinking This? By Michelle Rial—A clever book of charts about overthinking, this book is worth reading for a chuckle, and for provoking some thought, too. The charts are unique, to say the least. Rather than overthinking how to describe it, I'll just say you have to see it to believe it.

102)
His Small-Town Girl by Arlene James—Tyler Aldrich drives to get away from his fast-paced, stressful corporate life. Running out of gas, he ends up in Eden, Oklahoma at Heavenly Arms Hotel. There isn't much to speak of in the town, but the hotel boasts the Jefford family, a family that welcomes him in, in ways he has never been welcomed in before, even with all of his money. As with many romances, this story line is a bit fast. Still, it has some real merits, specifically many true representations of the gospel. With elevated prose and a little bit different story line, this book gives readers room for thinking about love, wealth, family, faith and so much more.

103)
A Mommy in Mind by Arlene James—A few things bugged me about this book: First, the title is very trite and not fully reflective of the rich, nuanced story about adoption and foster care. Second, I had a really hard time getting over what seemed to a major ethical flaw of lawyer Ramon Estes getting involved with the opponent of one of his former clients, and potential adoptive mother, Lori Sumner. Besides that, this story is rich in redemptive, gospel message and learning that God’s will are not a person or a purpose, but rather, in Lori’s words: “to serve and obey [the] sovereign Lord God, Who would never abandon her, ignore her, or indeed, any of His children.” I wish I. I wish I could get over the things that bugged me about this book, but unfortunately, they stayed in mind, diminishing my enjoyment of the overall story.

104)
Everything All At Once by Steph Catudal—I wanted to read this book after hearing the author on the Ali on the Run show. Plus, I felt some affinity for its author, who once lived in the Flagstaff, Arizona running community. The book was both beautiful and brutal. The author has a gorgeous writing style and many profound things to say. Her forward and backward writing style [even chapters being stories about her upbringing and odd chapters being about her husband Tommy Rivers Puzey's (Riv's) fight against extranodal natural killer T-cell lymphoma] is creative. The topics she writes about, though, losing her father to lung cancer, and the details of how she coped with that grief through alcohol, drugs, and sex are awful! “The ECMO Diaries” chapter is a little hard to follow, as it is a collection of her Instagram posts. Add to all this that Catudal was raised Mormon, but no longer believes in God (using a lower case “g” when mentioning Him), and instead believes in love being a god, and I really cannot recommend this book. I do pray for the author, though, that one day she will know the true God, the God who loved us so much He sent His son to die for us; the only God who is big enough to handle the everything all at once that life throws at us.

105) 
Work Simply: Embracing The Power of Your Personal Productivity Style by Carson Tate—This was a good book, more business- than life-minded, but still helpful. In the book, Tate helps readers discover their productivity style (Prioritizer, Planner, Arranger, or Visualizer) and put it to use. She writes about apps that can help each productivity style, and most helpful to me, shares about how to work with those whose productivity styles differ from my own. With helpful acronyms and frequent reminders to “work simply to live fully,” this book is worth at least a simple skim read.

106) Connecting: Healing for Ourselves and Our Relationships by Larry Crabb—This is a very thought-provoking book! In in, Christian counselor Larry Crabb suggests a new paradigm for healing: everyday, common, Christ-infused relationships. Yes, there may be room for professional counselors for specific issues like ADHD, bipolar disorder, OCD, psychosis, etc., but there is more room for connecting. Crabb writes often of marriage being a healing relationship. He writes of working to so allow Christ to live in the self that the self brings out Christ in others. He details urges to be killed and energy of Christ to be released. I benefitted greatly from reading this book, especially since it relates to the work I do. I think I will need to read this book again in the future to see what else God might want to show me through it!

107) 
The Courage to Dream by Margaret Daley—Rachel Peters returns to Magnolia Blossom to care for her younger siblings Amy and Shaun. Her parents long ago left she and her siblings with their Aunt Flora, and now Aunt Flora has died. Rachel is loathe to return to this place, having big plans to start at restaurant in New York City. She knows the pain of parental abandonment, though, so has decided to step into the gap. The only problem is the man she left behind: Michael Hunter, who has his own pains of abandonment after the woman he married after Rachel left walked out on him and his son Garrett. This book contains some great truths about family and forgiveness, along with quite a lot of softening and sweetness. I wish divorce was not part of this story, but in today's society, it is, and it does require a lot of room for forgiveness before there is courage to dream again.

108) 
Good for a Girl: A Woman Running in a Man’s World by Lauren Fleshman—Lauren Fleshman, a decorated American runner, tried, at various points in her professional running career with Nike, to advocate for better understanding and treatment of women, but she writes that they shut her down. Now a coach in her own right, Fleshman bares her personal story in an attempt to show why there needs to be a different paradigm for women runners, one that respects and honors their unique physiology, and makes room for processes like becoming a mother without penalty. Part memoir, part expose, Fleshman weaves research into her personal story in an engaging way. I read this book in a weekend, the writing was that good! While the book does contains some socio-political ideology which which I do not agree, as well as some language, this book has very important things to say. Young female athletes, and more so, their parents and coaches should consider reading before immersing themselves in a pro running world that though better, is still not that good for girls.

109) 
The Dance by Dan Walsh and Gary Smalley (10/28/23)I like restoration stories, and this is one! After over 25 years of marriage, Jim and Marilyn Anderson have a relationship of prestige, but nothing more. Marilyn decides to leave, not permanently, but to get some perspective. Jim is angry, until dance mentor Audrey Windsor teaches him a thing or two about marriage. Then he starts to try to pursue his wife again, but is it too late?

This book has some plot holes. Rarely in marriage are things one sided. Marilyn seems a bit too “right” in this story. Some parts of the story made me really nervous, but never actually crossed my morality line. (Read to find out more.) Some of Gary Smalley’s DNA of Relationships material seems a bit forced into the story. Still, overall, this was a great story, with a helpful interview with Gary Smalley at the end to round it out.

Saturday, September 11, 2021

Choosing to Remember: Reflecting on 9/11/2001


On this, the 20th anniversary of 9/11, I’m reflecting on the phrase, “We will never forget.” Those old enough to have lived through September 11th always ask, “Where were you that day?” I wonder, though, if a better question to ask is, “What have we done since that day?” We should always remember September 11th, but what we remember and how we remember matters.

We all remember where we were September 11, 2001. I was waiting at the bus stop. Others were at school, at work, at home. Some were in New York or DC or Pennsylvania. Some were stationed abroad. Around the world, people suddenly became glued to the television, or radio, or whatever media would give us coverage. We gathered in prayer vigils at home and in our churches. We watched our country collapse. We watched our country go back to war. Everything became different that day.

Our country changed on September 11, 2011. Our individual lives changed. Many lost loved ones. Other loved ones were called to go overseas to fight. People become afraid to drive, afraid to fly, afraid to approach the areas of tragedy. People of certain nationalities were unjustly profiled and targeted. It was a dark time. Is the darkness, though, our strongest memory?

What about the tragic beauty of 9/11? The firefighters who gave their lives to save lives.The members of Flight 93 who said, “Let’s roll,” before the terrorists could fully roll out their evil plans. The turning back to God and prayer. The renewed patriotism. The supporting of our troops, the beauty of the memorials. The trauma of 9/11 left its mark on the United States as a whole, as well as individual friends of the United States. We can choose what to do with those scars, though.

Shortly after 9/11, our family started praying for military members by name through what I believe is a now defunct organization. We downloaded a daily prayer guide for the military for use in this purpose. I still have both the guide and names of select men in my Bible. Though I have no idea what happened to the original men I had, I still pray for them. Over time, I have added and subtracted the names of other military people I know personally, so that I may remember them in prayer. When I have worked with kids born after 9/11, I have taught them about what happened. I have paused to remember lives lost when visiting healing fields. I have run in a Patriot Run race for several years to raise money for a local honor guard. I have thanked veterans and public service people for serving when I have seen them. Little things, but things I can do to try to remember September 11th well.

We will never forget, but we can choose how we remember. 

Wednesday, February 24, 2016

National Collegiate Day of Prayer

I will be joining in the National Collegiate Day of Prayer 2/25/16, so I will not post prayer verses this week. Find out more about what and how to pray by reviewing the prayer outline at http://www.collegiatedayofprayer.org/resources/what-pray.


I will pray for my alma mater tomorrow. For what campus will you pray?

Sunday, June 8, 2025

The Last One



God often ministers to my heart through music. The day after my granddad died, the song I woke up was,"The Wise Man Built His House:"

The wise man built his house upon the Rock,
The wise man built his house upon the Rock,
The wise man built his house upon the Rock...
[And] the house on the Rock stood firm.

(Omley, 1948).

Granddad was our last living grandparent (at least on my side of the family). Losing him was sobering, not only because of his personal loss, but because of the loss of our last tie to that generation. As I considered this loss, though, I realized that it does not have to be final. We who know Jesus will see Granddad again in heaven, and we who are living have the opportunity to carry on his legacy.

Granddad read and studied his Bible daily. It was he who started our family on a read through the Bible in a year plan. Although I don't personally follow this, I did get my start on the amended plan Granddad made just for us kids when we were growing up. 

Granddad prayed, not just daily, but unceasingly. He had to give up more and more of his possessions as he transitioned into needing more and more care, but what he kept was his pictures. He would look through them time and time again. While he could not correctly name all the faces, on my last visit, he told me about how he prayed for those people. I believe him! 

My mom is a prayer warrior, having taken part in corporate prayer through Moms in Prayer for years. She still participates in that ministry, and often brings others into it. Although I am not a mom and not part of that group, I try to maintain a weekly time devoted to more intense prayer. Recognizing the link to my granddad motivates me to Lord willing, keep that up.

Granddad and Nana were married over fifty years. After Nana died in 2015, Granddad never remarried. In fact, I think he wore his wedding ring right up to the end (as did she). While I know their marriage was not perfect, they set an example of commitment for all of us who follow behind them. Staying married honors God and honors them.

There are other things that live on past Granddad and Nana, too. My little brother plays the flute, as Granddad did. My mom plays the piano, as Nana did. We have stories and photos left behind from my granddad's aviation adventures, as well as some Waorani/Auca spears he got when he met members of the tribe who killed five missionaries before coming to know Jesus. I was blessed to get the stone from the ring with which my Granddad proposed, the stone that my nana wore all through her marriage. Granddad's tidiness and fastidiousness lives on in several of us, but I will only call out myself. None of us are Granddad, but together, through all of us, he lives on.

Granddad lives on not because of any certain health or even spiritual habits. He lives on because he built his house on the Rock of Jesus Christ. Ultimately, Jesus is and will be the last one. He was the last sacrifice for sin (English Standard Version, 2016, Hebrews 10:10). He is timeless, the first and the last (English Standard Version, 2016, Revelation 1:17). Granddad's life pointed us to Him, and for that, I will be forever grateful!


References:


English Standard Version. (2019). Bible Gateway. https://www.biblegateway.com/versions/English-Standard-Version-ESV-Bible/#copy


Omley, A. (1948). The wise man built his house. Timeless truths. https://library.timelesstruths.org/music/The_Wise_Man_and_the_Foolish_Man/


Friday, November 18, 2016

God Hears Our Cries

In this continued time of waiting for God to answer prayer, it is good to remember that God hears our cries. He isn't leaving us alone in our distress and our grief. He is listening, working out His perfect will in His perfect timing.

Genesis 21:17

God heard the boy crying, and the angel of God called to Hagar from heaven and said to her, "What is the matter, Hagar? Do not be afraid; God has heard the boy crying as he lies there."


Numbers 20:16

But when we cried out to the Lord, he heard our cry and sent an angel and brought us out of Egypt.


1 Kings 8:28

Yet give attention to your servant’s prayer and his plea for mercy, Lord my God. Hear the cry and the prayer that your servant is praying in your presence this day.


Psalm 5:2

Hear my cry for help, my King and my God, for to you I pray.


Psalm 6:9

The Lord has heard my cry for mercy; the Lord accepts my prayer.


Psalm 10:17

You, Lord, hear the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry.


Psalm 18:6

In my distress I called to the Lord; I cried to my God for help. From his temple he heard my voice; my cry came before him, into his ears.


Friday, February 5, 2016

Thanksgiving: An Expression of Thanks

We can pray all day, but at the end of the day, if we forget to remember how God has answered our prayers, we miss a crucial part of the process. Mom taught me to review my written prayer requests every so often so as to call to mind God's provisions and answers. I try to do this in one of my weekly prayer times to thanksgiving every month or two.


When I review my prayer requests, I focus on a different aspect of thanksgiving, as support by Scripture. Here is my focus for this week:


Thanksgiving as an expression of thanks.
To show, utter, or state thanks.


Leviticus 7:12
If they offer it as an expression of thankfulness, then along with this thank offering they are to offer thick loaves made without yeast and with olive oil mixed in, thin loaves made without yeast and brushed with oil, and thick loaves of the finest flour well-kneaded and with oil mixed in.



2 Chronicles 20:21
After consulting the people, Jehoshaphat appointed men to sing to the Lord and to praise him for the splendor of his holiness as they went out at the head of the army, saying: “Give thanks to the Lord, for his love endures forever.”


Psalm 50:23
Those who sacrifice thank offerings honor me, and to the blameless I will show my salvation.



2 Corinthians 9:12
This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of the Lord’s people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God.


Revelation 7:12
Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom and thanks and honor and power and strength be to our God for ever and ever. Amen!



Revelation 11:17
We give thanks to you, Lord God Almighty, the One who is and who was, because you have taken your great power and have begun to reign.

Friday, November 11, 2016

My Thoughts On The Election

First of all, let's me answer the inevitable question, “Who did you vote for?” I don't need to tell you because it's my business, but I probably need to state that it wasn't for any candidate towing a party line; I voted write-in for the first time in my life. Yes, maybe I, “threw away my vote.” Obviously, my candidate didn't win. But I believed it was more important to vote for a candidate that stood for my values than it was to contribute to the “win” of the person that would become the next president of the United States.

With that being said, I feel compelled to write about my sorrow over this election cycle and its results. The words of the candidates and their supporters have been so filled with hate. The media is constantly producing some story to either inflate or deflate a candidate. Minorities, people of color, veterans, country people, town people, almost all people feel threatened in some way, shape, or form. There are protests and riots and flag-burnings. I think a great many people are reacting irrationally, out of fear, rather than out of clear, logical thinking. That's the normal “fight, flight, or freeze” biological reaction to stress. Regardless, our country is falling apart.

So what should we be doing? Specifically, what should people of faith, people who call themselves followers of Christ, be doing? As I read Psalm 109 this morning, I was struck by David's response to the attacks of his enemies (unnamed though they might be). “With words of hatred they surround me;” he writes. “They attack me without cause. In return for my friendship they accuse me, but I am a man of prayer” (vv. 3-4). Wait. What? “But I am a man of prayer.” Ouch. That convicts me. Have I really prayed about this election? Have I prayed for each candidate by name, asking that God save their souls above all else? No. I have to confess that I haven't, at least not faithfully. Instead, I've complained. I've ranted. I've avoided the news, tried to remain neutral, fussed about wanting the election to end. I've uttered a lot of unprofitable words, I must admit.

And have I prayed about the issues of the election? Have I talked to God about abortion, about LGBT rights, about white privilege, about immigration, about the refugee crisis? No, not really. Do I want my heart to be enlightened about these issues, and to care for the people whom they affect? (See Paul's prayer for enlightenment in Ephesians 1:18). No, not really. It hurts to think about the gaping needs in this world. It stings when the Spirit convicts me to take action, or to make decisions that other people don't understand. I didn't even tell my family that I voted write-in until after the election. I, too, often act or react out of fear.

As I read on in Psalm 109, I see David write about God, “They may curse, but You will bless.” As the world around me speaks words of vitriolic poison, am I speaking words of kindness? Am I reaching out to my many friends who feel threatened by the president-elect? “For He stands at the right hand of the needy one, to save his life from those who condemn him,” David writes (v. 31). These people who feel marginalized aren't just any people. Many of them are “our people,” people of the church, to steal a summation from Mark Yarhouse's book. And even if these people aren't believers, they're certainly in need, and Scripture says that God cares! If God cares, I'm obligated to do the same.

A few Psalms before 109, David challenges his readers to, “Look to the Lord and His strength; [to] seek His face always” (Ps 105:4). In these confusing, painful, polarized times, that's what we as followers of Christ need to be doing. We need to be praying, to “pour out [our hearts] like water” (Lam 2:19) on behalf of ourselves, our neighbors, our countries, and our president elect. Then we need to take action, for “Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead” (James 2:17). Yes, we might screw up. Yes, we might offend people. But we've got to do something.

As Spirit-filled people, we believe that we have access to a higher power. We state that we believe in redemption, that we believe in miracles. Our country needs both if we're ever going to be what our country's name entails: The United States of America. If we as Christ-followers really understand our identity, if we really believe what we say we do, the change our country needs had better start with our prayers and our actions.

Thursday, August 28, 2025

A Prayer for the Everyday


A Prayer for the Everyday
By Sarah Earles

Guide me in the everyday,
I pray:
In the rising,
in the resting,
in the waking
in the doing
in the shopping
in the work
in the eating
in the cleaning
in the running
in the stretching
in the loving
in the losing
in the morning
in the evening
in the mid-afternoon
in the twilight
in the words
in the wisdom
in the speaking
in the listening
in the reading
in the prayer.
Guide me Spirit, everyday
I pray.

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Fix Your Heart.

I wrote earlier about times when the Spirit has convicted me to stop praying about something, to let go and let God. But the last time this happened, something else happened. I heard the still small voice say, "Pray for your heart." I was so convicted that my heart wasn't in the right place. I was praying for circumstances to change when what God really wanted to change was my heart.

So I changed the direction of my prayers. I prayed that I would be faithful and trustworthy in my actions. I prayed that I would rest in God's peace. I prayed that I would be sensitive to the Spirit's leading. I prayed that I would be brave and obedient. I prayed that I would be okay however the issue turned out. And my heart began to change.

I still don't have answers. And maybe that's the point. Prayer doesn't change God, because He is changeless. Prayer changes me. Prayer allows God to fix my heart.



Friday, August 19, 2016

God Fulfills our Longing.


No prayer verses came this past week because Mom gave me her prayer sheet focusing on God's wings. This week, the focus is on how God fulfills our longing. In fact, God should be our deepest Longing: "Strong, persistent desire or craving, especially for something unattainable or distant" (Dictionary.com, n. d.).

Psalm 38:9

All my longings lie open before you, Lord; my sighing is not hidden from you.


Psalm 119:20

My soul is consumed with longing for your laws at all times.


Psalm 119:81

My soul faints with longing for your salvation, but I have put my hope in your word.


Psalm 119:131

I open my mouth and pant, longing for your commands.


Proverbs 13:12

Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life.


2 Corinthians 5:2

Meanwhile we groan, longing to be clothed instead with our heavenly dwelling.


Hebrews 11:16

Instead, they were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.

Reference:
Longing. (n. d.). Dictionary.com Unabridged. Retrieved August 9, 2016 from 
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/longing

Sunday, November 24, 2024

40 Years of Faithfulness


My parents celebrate 40 years of marriage today. What faithfulness! What commitment! Praise be to God! In honor of this occasion, here are 40 gifts that my parents' marriage has given to me:

  1. Teaching me about Jesus
  2. The practice of scripture recitation
  3. Demonstrating the importance of Bible reading
  4. Frequently incorporation of prayer
  5. A valuation of missions work
  6. Appreciation of home-cooked meals (Yes, even Dad's breakfast special of refrigerator biscuits, bacon, egg, and cheese counts because he made it at home!)
  7. Provision of a stable home life, something a lot of children rarely have these days.
  8. Two caregivers when I was sick
  9. The benefits of two protectors
  10. A real-life definition of a biblical marriage
  11. A balance of male and female input in my life
  12. Showing me what a godly husband should be
  13. Giving me an example of a godly wife
  14. Providing not one, but two prayer warriors
  15. Showing me two different cultures
  16. Modeling what it looks like to grow together over the years
  17. Vetted marriage resources
  18. The sharing of personal marriage advice
  19. Words of wisdom
  20. Gentle rebuke and correction
  21. Laughter
  22. Love
  23. The conviction divorce was not an option in a godly marriage
  24. Never discussing divorce in front of me
  25. Persistance
  26. A strong work ethic
  27. A stubborn will to succeed (those sometimes it does bite me)
  28. Love of the outdoors
  29. Timeless music
  30. Hymn playing and singing
  31. Thriftiness
  32. A desire to do things myself when and where I can
  33. Siblings
  34. A routine of churchgoing
  35. The tradition of Saturday morning pancakes
  36. Many great family recipes
  37. Great books
  38. Creativity
  39. Play
  40. Enjoyment of family games (Skip-Bo, Othello, Rook, Monopoly, etc.)
Thank you, Mom and Dad for your commitment to Jesus, and to each other. Happy anniversary!

Sunday, April 10, 2022

Real Life Marriage: Pest or Prayer Warrior

I need to be a bit of a nag. Being a "J" (Judger) on the Meyers-Briggs personality test, I tend to want things clear cut, black and white, right now. My husband is a "P" (Perceiver), more chill, more go with the flow, more person-centered, if I am honest. Sometimes that causes issues. When we make decisions, I want things done now, yesterday. So I pester. I nag. What I really need to do is pray.

My husband is a good, godly man. God has blessed me in this. So can't I trust my husband to act on decisions in the right time? My anxiety and desire to have things done right now can get in the way, but what I really need to do is pray. First, I need to pray for my heart, that I will be right with God; able to roll my anxiety on him, and so able to respect my husband. Then I need to pray for my husband, that he will be open to God's moving, and that God will move his heart at the right time. Although, I often want things now, that is not always God's way, and often, God uses my husband to slow me down so that I don't get things through my own sinful means.

I have unfortunately nagged my husband about many things. In many cases, I have gotten around to giving up and deciding to be quiet and pray. Then, lo and behold, in some time, God has moved. I do not want to treat God like a vending machine in that I can pray and get what I want, but I think it is telling that when I finally surrender to God's order for our home and wait, God chooses to move.

I am not good at waiting. This much is true. I am also not good at praying. I need a lot of practice. Being in the partnership of marriage gives me plenty reason for that practice, so may I choose to submit to it more. I love God and I love my husband. I do not want to be a pest. I want to be a prayer warrior. May the Spirit equip me to be so.

Monday, August 6, 2018

Breath Prayers

I often get overwhelmed when people remind me that I'm supposed to pray without ceasing. I know that's what God's Word commands (1 Thess 5:17), but it's hard for me to do. I'm busy and human and quite frankly just don't always want to seek the Lord wholeheartedly.

Somewhere along the journey of my spiritual life, however, I got introduced to breath prayers. In the traditional practice, people pray in rhythm with their breath, as a form of contemplation or meditation. (Read more on that here.) In my practice, these prayers are just simple words I can say in a breath. They're often desperate cries to the Lord, but they are also honest and real. They remind me that there is more to this world than me and that Jesus is my source of power.

Here are a few of my breath prayers and why I pray them: 

Lord, help!
Desperate times call for desperate measures. And sometimes sending out an SOS is all I have in me.

Let me be love.
This is a prayer I often pray as I go to work. I can't necessarily witness with words in this setting, but I pray that my life will be a witness.

Let me be Jesus.
I pray this as I start hard days and go into difficult situations. I may be all some people see of Jesus and I need the Holy Spirit to empower me to represent him accurately.

Let love flow through.
A lot of my prayer lately revolve around love as the Lord is teaching me I need to learn to love a whole lot better. I tend to be a human doing instead of a human being, so when I pray this, I am praying for God to act and empower me to do right instead of trying so hard to find and do right on my own.

They're yours, Lord.
When I want to cling to people for comfort or when I'm scared for people I love, I remind myself that people are not mine. They are the Lord's, and as a Good Father, He will take care of them (Matt 7:11).

Jesus.
In those times when I literally don't know what to say or do, I call on Jesus, for there is power in His name. This is also my cry for the Holy Spirit to intercede for me because I don't know how to pray (Rom 8:26-27).



Does any of you have short prayers that they pray to get them through the day? Please share in the comments section below.

Saturday, November 30, 2024

Everything I Read in November

A few heavy hitters, as well as some enjoyable holidays reads are in this month's wrap-up:

86) Running a Marathon for Dummies by Jason R. Karp, PhD—If I am ever going to run farther than a half marathon, I don't want to be a dummy, so I read this book! The science is admittedly a little dated, but a lot of it still holds true. Karp writes a lot about the musculature of running, the physiology of running, and more. There are photos of stretches and strength moves to do, plus an interesting (again, dated) list of fun marathons to run. The one caution I would give with this book is his suggestion to do carb-depleted/depleting runs. From what I have read, that is old science, and now dubbed to be dangerous. Don't be a dummy and take old science as new!

87) The Key to Love by Betsy St. Amant—This book took me awhile to get into. The story of a spat between Baker Bri and Travel Writer Gerard at The Puff Pastry Shop oozes cheesiness. It ends poignantly with some powerful truths about life and love, however. Readers who get through the corniness of a town named Story with a gingerbread house bed and breakfast and a love lock wall can stand to glean some truths from reading the novel. As with love, commitment to the process is key.

88) The Faithful Way: Remaining Steadfast in an Uncertain World by Cynthia Heald—This is a powerful book! Cynthia Heald, author of the "Becoming a Woman of..." books writes here about faithfulness, and in ways that really resonate with me. She writes first of how "faithfulness begins with ardent love for the Lord and fervent determination to fling ourselves on him in reckless confidence.” I have always thought of faithfulness as something I do, but it is not. It is a work enabled by the Spirit when I chose to love God and place Him first in my life. Heald goes on to write about the practicalities of faithful living: prayer, Bible reading, and being on the watch for sin, to name a few. Each daily reading contains verses to read, quotes from commentaries and other resources, questions for application, and a short prayer. This is really a rich resource. I read it as a book (so more than one reading at once), but could probably gain even more through faithfully reading and meditating on each chapter over a 31 day (or longer!) period.

89) The Christmas Bargain by Lisa Carter—Artist and art teacher Lila Penry cannot wait to get an artist in residence position in California. Sam Gibson is trying to make a life for himself and his niece Emma Cate. Having been raised by a con man, Sam cannot bring himself to accept handouts, but when Lila asks him to go with her to a wedding in exchange for art classes for Emma Cate, he cannot say, “No.” When the wedding weekend ends with assumptions that he and Lila are engaged, he doesn’t want to say, “No,” to that either, but eventually, he does. He says, “No,” because he believes himself unworthy of Lila, and thinks he knows what is best for her. In the end, they both have to seek the Lord, and with the help of Aunt IdaLee, they begin to see themselves as they truly are: truly loved, and capable of giving and receiving love. This is a truly sweet book with some tear-jerking moments and cut-to-the-heart truths. Although it is a quick read, its truths are timeless!

(90) One in a Millennial: On Friendship, Feelings, Fangirls, and Fitting In by Kate Kennedy—Cassey Ho of Blogilates, Jessica Merchant of How Sweet Eats, and probably some others raved about this book. While I recognized some of its cultural references, I just didn’t find much substance in it. Sure, there is something to be said (written) about millennial culture, but this treatise mostly on the effects of millennial life on self esteem just didn’t do it for me. While nothing in the book overly offended me, once in a while the author used language and or referred to mature topics, so overall, the book just isn’t one I would recommend.

91) Unfollow: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving Extremism by Megan Phelps-Roper—Megan Phelps-Roper was a beloved member of Westboro Baptist Church, until she wasn’t. This book chronicles her living in and leaving of the sect. It tells of those brave enough to engage with her, including her now husband. It reveals her wrestlings and her love for her family, even in spite of the harm done her. In her final chapter, she writes briefly of the importance of engaging with contradictory ideas, while constantly reassessing one’s world view. This book is graphic at times, and definitely emotional. Readers who want to learn more about extremism, though, can learn more about the waves of its torrents by reading.

92) The Bodine Family Christmas by Marta Perry—This short and sweet story follows Lieutenant Travis McCall as he goes to Alabama to spend Christmas with the family of his military buddy Luke. He is healing from injury, and heartbreak, and does not necessarily want to be there. Twin Annabel Bodine literally ropes him into helping at her sanctuary ranch, however. That leads him to help with the church’s living nativity, and meet a boy named Kyle. Both Annabel and Travis have to learn about waiting on God, telling the truth, and facing the past. Although the plot line moves a bit fast and could benefit from some fleshing out, the story is worth reading for some good feels, just like a quick kiss under the mistletoe.

93) The Gingerbread Season by Betsy St Amant—Okay, this book was even better than The Bodine Family Christmas with which it was packaged. It’s still a going home story, but this time for Allie James, a young woman freshly out of a job and moving back in with her parents.She takes a temp job to help revitalize her town, and is highly successful at it, but all the while has to dodge feelings about her boss Jordan Walker, the man who broke her heart years ago at Christmas. Allie has always felt “less-than,” in her family. Her sister Molly is married with a child and owns a successful business. Jordan moved on and made money. Allie has none of that. A small-business loan might out her back on her feet and return her to Kansas City, but is it really the season for that? This story brought me nearly to tears at times because of its poignancy, but ended on such a high note. Christmas is such a great season for redemption stories such as this one!

94) A Family Style Christmas by Caroline Arsen — Nurse Caitlin Severn witnesses a terrible motorcycle accident on her way home from breaking up with her longtime boyfriend. Despite attempts not to get attached to the accident victim, she does. Simon Steele is not an easy patient, however. He constantly gives her trouble, pulling her close, and then pushing her away. He has never known the lasting comfort of family, having been raised in and run away from foster homes for most of his life. Caitlin does not know what to do with him, only that she must pray for him, and that she does. Along the way, she learns more about Simon's family, and her own heart. The conclusion/continuation of the story is a sweet one, less about Christmas, and more about family, which is what Jesus coming to earth to be the Savior of the world is really about.

95) Simplify. Ten Practices to Unclutter Your Soul by Bill Hybels —Bill Hybels may now be a disgraced pastor, but he has some wise words here. He writes of simplicity not as just an earthly practice, but about as a way to live out who God wants each person to be. He advocates for “chair time” with God each day. He suggests a life verse as an anchor. Each chapter includes scriptures, stories, and questions for pondering. While nothing here was exactly earth-shattering, this book did effect me in that it caused me to ask questions about who I am and the purpose for which God has placed me on earth. If you want to read a book about the spiritual practice of simplicity, I recommend this one!

96) Yuletide Homecoming by Carolyn Arsen—Sarah Westerveld returns home at the request of her father. When he has a stroke before she can speak to him, she gets stuck in her hometown, a town she escaped years ago. Sarah planned a trip with friends to celebrate her college graduation, but now she is stuck trying to care for her father. She coaches basketball for a time, but then gets excluded, even from that. She tries to avoid her high school boyfriend Logan Carelton, a man from a family with whom hers has a feud. This book starts a little Montague and Capulet style, but ends with some powerful truths about love and choice. I especially appreciate the author's incorporation of scripture. If you want a book that makes you grateful for the home and family you have this season, this might be it!

What have you read lately? Please share any must-reads in the comments section!